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We do not have any prearranged plan about it; it just works out this way. What we do is not nearly as methodical as Mike and Mike's girl's life seems to be. But we are finding that we are living more by what feels natural to US. We are not worried so much about what is fair, or what is right by society's standards. We are following our instincts. Mike (my Mike) is doing what feels masculine to him and I am doing what feels feminine to me. What we are finding is that is very sexy and connecting to live this way. Some of what you are saying is true for us also. Thanks for sharing; I think it is neat that you are so comfortable this way.

Take care,
Tevemer

by Tevemer on 2005 May 21 - 20:38 | reply to this comment
More Honesty
LouisC wrote:

Yes, that is my husband's approach to housework "this place is a pigsty, let's get it cleaned up (or else the workshop)" and I must say I prefer it. I like to know where I am with a man. All this manipulative, sneaky stuff really freaks me out. Being able to communicate in a straightforward manner without all this strange dancing about suits me much better.

Your points in order:

1) Different strokes - we "prefer" the house always clean.

2) I, too, like to know where I am with a man. I like a firm handshake and someone who looks you straight in the eye. If he shares my interest in armored fighting vehicles and the locking mechanisms of automatic weapons, he's a friend for life. I'm sure you feel the same way.

3) There has been a mis-impression created regarding "manipulation". The discovery that my wife, "Mike's Girl," would cheerfully do things that would otherwise be drudgery under another regime was an accident. But it is simple psychology that things done by election are (to some people, at least) more agreeable than those done under pressure of necessity. And, again, she doesn't *have* to do *anything*. I do just about everything, and if something goes undone, I will do it.
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